|In order to succeed in the social scene, everyone needs to
stop measuring visits and start measuring victories.
Offline business rules have always applied in the online space;
so it would be a safe bet that the social rules we all grew up with, the ones our loving parents drilled into our heads, the rules that kept us safe and happy, would also apply when
used in online social situations.
Social Rule #1
Choose your friends wisely.
It seems that building a large number of friends is the goal for most online socialites. The more friends you have, the more popular you are in an offline situation. A good example of this is high school. The less popular, nerdy student only had a few friends, which happened to be other less popular, nerdy students with similar goals and interests.
By grouping together, sharing ideas, and staying hyper-focused, this social solidarity seemed to always achieve levels of success later in life that most of us could only dream about. One example of a person that has done so is Bill Gates.
Social networking works the same way. Be choosy when selecting friends. A smaller group of like-minded individuals allows you to spread your message through a more targeted audience. Large groups of broad targets and views will muddy the waters and stop you from achieving the results needed to succeed.
Social Rule #2
By participating, you become part of the community. People start to recognize you and appreciate your efforts. These efforts will not go unrewarded. I started my marketing blog eight months ago. I spent the first six months visiting other blogs in the marketing category and commenting on them. I added some to my blog-roll and even sent personal messages to a few I really liked. The result was others responding in kind. Within eight months I developed a following of over 2,000 readers.
Social Rule #3
If you have nothing nice to say, don’t say anything at all.
This one is simple. Bashing and negativity runs rampant through the social scene. I’m not talking about negative comments. By all means, if you don’t agree with something, you should post your opinion, but bashing someone is something totally different. If you are nasty or tend to post inappropriate, negative comments all the time, it won’t be long before a community labels you a jackass and no one will take you seriously. Obviously, this is counter productive to your goals.
Take the time to think through your comments and actions. Try to give constructive criticism as opposed to a negative view. Choose your words wisely and it will showcase your expertise as opposed to your dark side.
Social Rule #4
The point of this rule is to take the visitors experience very seriously. This is where the rubber meets the road. Make things that you want viewed easy to access. When a site is cumbersome for people to use, they will stop using it and become blind to your existence.
In the end, social media is a two way street and the oncoming traffic will either help you or kill you – the choice is yours.
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